Self-Paced Online Course · Start Anytime

Own Your Journey.

Prepare Intentionally for the Marriage You Desire.

You have prepared for your career. You have invested in your spiritual life. You have developed yourself in many areas. But how intentionally have you prepared for marriage?

The Single Ladies Relationship Boot Camp is a practical, faith-based relationship preparation programme for mature Christian single women who want to understand God's principles for marriage, clarify what they truly desire, strengthen their faith and take an active, responsible role in preparing for their relationship future.

Enrol anytime · Learn online · Work through the programme at your own pace
Biblically GroundedFaith and relationship principles
Established ProgrammeTaught for several years
Purposeful PreparationNot passive waiting
Start AnytimeLearn at your own pace
Own Your Journey

Don't merely wait for your relationship future. Prepare for it wisely.

Many sincere Christian women pray about marriage, but few have ever been taught how to think intentionally and biblically about their own role in preparing for it.

SLRBC challenges passive waiting without replacing faith in God. It helps you examine your understanding of marriage, your desires, your expectations, your inner beliefs, your spiritual posture and the responsibility you carry for the choices you make.

This is not about chasing a husband, lowering your standards or trying to force an outcome. It is about becoming clearer, more purposeful, more prayerful and more intentional.

You can desire marriage deeply without desperation. You can trust God while growing in wisdom. And you can prepare for a future relationship while continuing to live a meaningful, purposeful life now.

Questions Worth Answering

How clearly have you thought about marriage?

SLRBC goes beyond general encouragement. It helps you wrestle with practical and biblical questions that can shape the way you approach your relationship journey.

?What is God's intention for marriage?
?Why do you really want to get married?
?Is there such a thing as a soulmate?
?Does God choose a partner for you?
?What place should attraction and excitement have in choosing a partner?
?Should you have a list or clear preferences concerning the person you want to marry?
?What role should money and financial realities play in relationships?
?What is the place of parental consent and family counsel?
?How do you recognise when a relationship is keeping you waiting without meaningful progress?
?What do you bring into the marriage and partnership you desire?
The SLRBC Curriculum

14 sessions designed to move you from vague hope to purposeful preparation.

The programme combines biblical teaching, faith, self-examination, clarity and practical responsibility. The original SLRBC session titles are retained below.

Phase 1 · Foundation & Purpose

Understand the bigger picture of marriage.

Begin with God's intention for partnership, dominion and the relationship between marriage and purpose.

Phase 2 · Desire, Clarity & Spiritual Expectation

Know what you are preparing for.

Move beyond a vague desire to marry and develop greater clarity concerning your expectation, faith and picture of partnership.

Phase 3 · Positioning & Responsibility

Recognise your role in the journey.

Healthy expectation is not passive. These sessions explore contribution, sacrifice, action, value and personal agency.

Phase 4 · Faith & Inner Transformation

Strengthen what you believe and how you respond.

Challenge limiting inner narratives, deepen your spiritual posture and practise persistent, faith-filled expectation.

What You Can Gain

A different way of approaching your single season.

SLRBC is designed to strengthen how you think, believe, prepare and participate—not to make unrealistic promises about when or whom you will marry.

1

Greater Biblical Clarity

Develop a clearer framework for understanding marriage, partnership, purpose and your responsibility within the journey.

2

Clearer Desire

Move beyond “I just want to get married” and think intentionally about the kind of person, partnership and life you are preparing for.

3

Renewed Expectation

Challenge resignation and passive waiting, and cultivate a faith-filled posture that remains hopeful, engaged and purposeful.

4

Personal Responsibility

Recognise the choices, preparation, mindset and actions that are within your control while still trusting God.

5

Healthier Inner Scripts

Identify beliefs and narratives that may be weakening your confidence or limiting the way you see your relationship future.

6

Purposeful Preparation

Prepare for marriage as a whole person—with faith, wisdom, clarity, contribution, purpose and emotional maturity.

How the Online Course Works

Begin now. Learn wherever you are.

The self-paced format makes the established SLRBC teaching available without waiting for a scheduled weekend retreat.

Step 1

Enrol Online

Complete your enrolment and receive access to the course platform.

Step 2

Start Anytime

Begin when you are ready rather than waiting for the next physical Boot Camp date.

Step 3

Learn at Your Pace

Work through the 14 sessions intentionally during your 30-day access period.

Step 4

Reflect & Apply

Take time to think, pray, make notes and put the principles into practice in your own life.

Who This Is For

You do not have to be heartbroken to need preparation.

SLRBC is for mature Christian single women who want to approach marriage with more than hope alone.

This course may be for you if…

  • You sincerely desire marriage and want a stronger biblical framework for preparing for it.
  • You are accomplished in other areas of life but have never intentionally developed this area.
  • You want greater clarity about what you truly desire in a husband and marriage.
  • You are tired of feeling that your only option is to pray and wait passively.
  • You want to examine beliefs, expectations and inner scripts that may be shaping your journey.
  • You are currently single, dating, recovering from disappointment or simply preparing before a relationship begins.
  • You want faith, wisdom and practical responsibility to work together.

You do not need to…

  • Be in a relationship crisis.
  • Have a history of unhealthy relationships.
  • Lower your standards to increase your chances of marriage.
  • Make marriage the whole purpose of your life.
  • Manipulate, chase or control another person.
  • Believe that completing a course guarantees marriage by a particular date.
From Previous Boot Camp Participants

Women have described SLRBC as foundational, practical and perspective-changing.

These brief excerpts reflect feedback from women who attended previous SLRBC experiences.

★★★★★

“This is the foundation and everyone needs to hear this.”

Sis Ntutu Previous SLRBC Participant
★★★★★

“Every single question about destiny and changing my setback into a setup has been answered.”

Sis D Previous SLRBC Participant
★★★★★

“I am so grateful that I attended that Boot Camp.”

Mrs Mathebula Previous SLRBC Participant
Dr Chucks and Pastor Toyin Ugoihe, facilitators of Single Ladies Relationship Boot Camp
Meet Your Facilitators

Dr Chucks & Pastor Toyin Ugoihe

Relationship teachers, coaches and pastors with many years of experience helping singles and couples build stronger, wiser and more purposeful relationships.

Through the Single Ladies Relationship Boot Camp, For Wives Only, marriage seminars, workshops, conferences and relationship coaching, they have worked with individuals and couples across different stages of relationship and family life.

Their approach combines biblical teaching with practical application, creating space for participants to think deeply, ask honest questions and apply relationship principles to real life.

They also teach regularly through Wisdom for Relationships and lead Resurrection Life Church in Johannesburg, South Africa.

Years of relationship teaching & mentoring
Founders / facilitators of SLRBC
Marriage & singles programmes
Biblical + practical teaching approach
A Clear Promise

What SLRBC does—and does not—promise.

SLRBC is designed to offer:

  • Biblical principles for marriage and relationships.
  • Greater clarity about your desires and expectations.
  • Faith-building teaching and purposeful preparation.
  • Tools for challenging limiting internal narratives.
  • A stronger sense of personal responsibility and agency.
  • A framework for prayer, wisdom, preparation and action.

SLRBC does not promise:

  • A husband within a guaranteed number of days.
  • The ability to control or manufacture another person's choices.
  • Manipulation, games or techniques for forcing commitment.
  • That marriage is the only measure of a woman's success or value.
  • That faith removes the need for wisdom, preparation and responsible choices.
Frequently Asked Questions

Before you enrol…

You can enrol and begin at any time. This is the self-paced version of the Single Ladies Relationship Boot Camp.
The current Online Course access period is 30 days from enrolment. Use that period intentionally to move through the 14 sessions, reflect and apply the principles.
No. SLRBC is also for women who are doing well, may not currently be dating and simply want to prepare wisely before entering marriage.
No. The programme has a broader focus: God's perspective on marriage, purpose, desire, faith, personal responsibility, spiritual expectation, inner beliefs and preparation for partnership.
No. The programme does not guarantee marriage or a particular timeline. It provides biblical principles, perspective, faith-building teaching and practical preparation that can strengthen how you approach your relationship journey.
Yes. This version is self-paced and available anytime. The physical 3-day retreat and the live online 3-day retreat are scheduled experiences with live participation.
Yes. Because the programme is online and self-paced, you can participate from wherever you have reliable internet access.
You can contact the SLRBC team on WhatsApp at +27 64 200 1545 for enrolment enquiries.
Ready to Begin?

Prepare intentionally. Strengthen your faith. Own your journey.

You do not have to put your growth on hold while waiting for the next relationship or retreat date. Begin the SLRBC Online Course and give focused attention to one of the most important areas of your future.

Don't merely wait for marriage. Prepare wisely for the relationship you desire.

Self-Paced Online Course

Single Ladies Relationship Boot Camp

R2000

One-time enrolment · 30-day course access

14 SLRBC teaching sessions
Start anytime
Study from anywhere
Learn at your own pace
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Prefer a Live Experience?

Choose another way to experience the Boot Camp.

SLRBC is one flagship programme available through different formats. Choose the experience that best suits your season and schedule.

Friday–Sunday · In Person

3-Day Physical Weekend Retreat

Step away from everyday distractions and experience the Boot Camp through live teaching, interaction, reflection and community.

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Friday–Sunday · Live Online

3-Day Live Online Retreat

Join the scheduled Boot Camp live from wherever you are without the travel, accommodation and feeding costs of physical attendance.

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