Single Ladies Relationship Boot Camp

Own Your Journey.

Prepare intentionally for the marriage you desire.

The Single Ladies Relationship Boot Camp is a practical, faith-based relationship-preparation programme for Christian single women who want to understand God's principles for marriage, clarify what they truly desire, strengthen their faith and take an active, responsible role in preparing for their relationship future.

Biblically grounded Faith + practical responsibility Three ways to participate
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Mature professional Christian women in a warm learning and retreat environment
Biblically Grounded Marriage, purpose & faith
Established Programme Taught for several years
Intentional Preparation Beyond passive waiting
Three Formats Online, physical or live online
Does this sound like you?

You have prepared for many areas of life. But how intentionally have you prepared for marriage?

You may be responsible, professionally established, spiritually serious and sincerely trusting God for marriage—yet still have important questions about your own role in the journey.

I have prayed about marriage—but what does wise, intentional preparation actually look like?
Does God choose a husband for me, or do I also have a responsibility to recognise and choose wisely?
What do I truly desire in a husband and marriage—and have I ever defined it clearly?
How should my purpose and Divine Assignment influence the kind of partnership I prepare for?
Have disappointment, delay or past experiences quietly rewritten what I now believe is possible?
How can I combine faith, prayer, wisdom and responsible action without becoming anxious or desperate?
Christian women learning, journalling, praying and interacting during a relationship programme
A trusted flagship programme

From our signature weekend Boot Camp to a complete relationship-preparation experience.

For several years, the Single Ladies Relationship Boot Camp has helped Christian single women think more intentionally about marriage, purpose, desire, faith, spiritual expectation and personal responsibility.

SLRBC is not simply a course about dating problems. It is a structured opportunity to examine what you believe about marriage, understand what you are preparing for, challenge limiting inner scripts and develop a clearer, faith-filled approach to your relationship future.

Self-Paced Online 3-Day Physical Retreat 3-Day Live Online Retreat

One flagship programme. Three ways to experience it. Choose according to your schedule, location, budget and preferred level of live interaction.

Own Your Journey

Faith does not have to mean passivity.

You cannot control another person's choices or manufacture marriage. But you can become intentional about what you believe, what you desire, how you prepare and how you respond.

Prayer + Preparation Pray while intentionally developing yourself and your understanding.
Faith + Wisdom Believe God while growing in sound judgement and biblical perspective.
Desire + Clarity Move beyond “I want to marry” to understanding what you truly desire.
Expectation + Action Refuse resignation and participate responsibly in your journey.
Trust + Responsibility Trust God without surrendering the choices and preparation that belong to you.
Choose your experience

One Boot Camp. Three ways to take the journey.

The core SLRBC philosophy remains the same. Choose the delivery format that best fits your availability, location and preferred level of interaction.

Start Anytime

Self-Paced Online Course

For the woman who wants to begin now and work through the established SLRBC teaching at her own pace.

  • Begin whenever you are ready
  • 14-session SLRBC curriculum
  • Study from anywhere
  • Reflect and apply at your own pace
  • Ideal for busy professionals
Availability: Open year-round R2000
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Join Live Online

3-Day Live Online Retreat

Join the scheduled Boot Camp weekend in real time from wherever you are, without travelling to the physical venue.

  • Friday–Sunday scheduled experience
  • Follow SLRBC teaching live
  • Join remotely from anywhere
  • No travel or accommodation required
  • Lower investment than physical attendance
Next Live Retreat: November 6th - 8th, 2026 R2000
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What the Boot Camp can help you gain

Move from passive waiting to purposeful preparation.

Whichever format you choose, SLRBC is designed to strengthen the way you think, believe, prepare and participate in your relationship journey.

1
Understand marriage more biblically

Develop a clearer framework for partnership, oneness, purpose, responsibility and what marriage is designed to accomplish.

2
Clarify what you truly desire

Move beyond a general desire to marry and think carefully about the kind of person, partnership and future you are preparing for.

3
Connect marriage to purpose

Consider how Divine Assignment, direction and the life you are called to build should inform your relationship choices.

4
Strengthen faith and expectation

Challenge resignation, delay-conscious thinking and passive waiting with a more active, faith-filled posture.

5
Challenge limiting inner scripts

Recognise beliefs shaped by history, disappointment or fear that may be influencing what you expect from your relationship future.

6
Understand your contribution

Think not only about what you want from marriage, but also the value, maturity, generosity and preparation you bring into it.

7
Take responsible action

Learn to combine trust in God with the preparation, decisions and actions that remain within your responsibility.

8
Prepare without desperation

Honour your desire for marriage while continuing to live from dignity, purpose, faith and wholeness.

Which experience fits you?

Compare the three Boot Camp experiences.

Experience Self-Paced Online Course 3-Day Physical Retreat 3-Day Live Online Retreat
Start anytime ✓ Yes — —
Live teaching — ✓ Yes ✓ Yes
Friday–Sunday immersion — ✓ Yes ✓ Yes
Attend from anywhere ✓ Yes — ✓ Yes
Face-to-face experience — ✓ Yes —
Accommodation & meals — ✓ Yes* —
No travel required ✓ Yes — ✓ Yes
Best for Maximum flexibility Deepest immersion Live experience remotely
Investment R2000 R3550 R2000
Start Anytime

Self-Paced Online Course

Start anytime ✓ Yes
Live teaching — No
Friday–Sunday immersion — No
Attend from anywhere ✓ Yes
Face-to-face experience — No
Accommodation & meals — No
No travel required ✓ Yes
Best for Maximum flexibility
Investment R2000
Live & In Person

3-Day Physical Weekend Retreat

Start anytime — No
Live teaching ✓ Yes
Friday–Sunday immersion ✓ Yes
Attend from anywhere — No
Face-to-face experience ✓ Yes
Accommodation & meals ✓ Yes*
No travel required — No
Best for Deepest immersion
Investment R3550
Join Live Online

3-Day Live Online Retreat

Start anytime — No
Live teaching ✓ Yes
Friday–Sunday immersion ✓ Yes
Attend from anywhere ✓ Yes
Face-to-face experience — No
Accommodation & meals — No
No travel required ✓ Yes
Best for Live experience remotely
Investment R2000

Choose according to the experience you need, your schedule, your location and your preferred level of interaction.

Who the Boot Camp is for

You do not have to be heartbroken or in crisis to benefit.

SLRBC is for mature Christian single women who want to approach marriage with greater faith, clarity, wisdom and intentional preparation.

  • You sincerely desire marriage and want a stronger biblical framework for preparing for it.
  • You have developed yourself in career, ministry or other areas but have never intentionally prepared in this area.
  • You want greater clarity about the kind of husband, partnership and marriage you truly desire.
  • You want to understand how purpose and Divine Assignment should influence relationship choices.
  • You are tired of feeling that your only role is to pray and wait passively.
  • You want to examine beliefs, expectations or disappointments that may be shaping your outlook.
  • You may be single, dating, recovering from disappointment or simply preparing before a relationship begins.
A mature confident Christian woman in a reflective and purposeful setting
Women who have experienced the Boot Camp

Foundational teaching. Important questions. Fresh perspective.

Previous participants have described SLRBC as a place where long-held questions are answered and foundational principles become clearer.

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This is the foundation and everyone needs to hear this.

Sis Ntutu Previous SLRBC Participant
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Every single question about destiny and changing my setback into a setup has been answered.

Sis D Previous SLRBC Participant
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I am so grateful that I attended that Boot Camp.

Mrs Mathebula Previous SLRBC Participant
Dr Chucks and Pastor Toyin Ugoihe, SLRBC facilitators
Meet your facilitators

Dr Chucks & Pastor Toyin Ugoihe

Relationship teachers, coaches and pastors with many years of experience helping singles and couples build stronger, wiser and more purposeful relationships.

The Single Ladies Relationship Boot Camp grew out of years of biblical teaching, counselling and practical work around marriage, relationships, purpose, faith and family life.

Their approach combines biblical principles with practical responsibility, helping participants ask honest questions, clarify what they believe and intentionally apply what they learn.

Questions, answered

Before you choose your experience.

Is SLRBC only for women who have had difficult relationships?

No. It is also for women who are doing well and simply recognise that marriage and partnership deserve intentional preparation, biblical understanding and clear thinking.

Is SLRBC mainly a dating or red-flags course?

No. Its focus is broader. SLRBC explores God's perspective on marriage, purpose and Divine Assignment, clarity of desire, faith, expectation, contribution, personal responsibility, internal scripts, prayer and intentional preparation.

Does “Own Your Journey” mean I have to make marriage happen by myself?

No. It means combining trust in God with the preparation, wisdom, decisions and responsible actions that belong to you. SLRBC does not teach control over another person's choices.

Which format should I choose?

Choose the self-paced course if flexibility matters most; the physical retreat if you want the deepest face-to-face immersion; or the live online retreat if you want a scheduled live experience without travel and accommodation.

Can I enrol in the Online Course at any time?

Yes. The Self-Paced Online Course is the evergreen SLRBC option and is designed for enrolment throughout the year.

When can I enrol for the physical or Live Online Retreat?

Those experiences run on scheduled dates. When registration is open, the relevant page will show the upcoming dates, venue or online access details and price.

Does SLRBC guarantee that I will get married after attending?

No. The programme does not guarantee marriage, a particular spouse or a specific timeline. It provides biblical teaching, faith-building principles, greater clarity and purposeful preparation for your relationship journey.

Is this only for Christian women?

SLRBC is explicitly rooted in biblical principles and Christian faith. Women from other backgrounds may participate if they are comfortable learning within that framework.

Ready to begin?

Don't merely wait for your relationship future. Prepare for it wisely.

Choose the SLRBC experience that works best for your season, schedule and preferred level of interaction.

Self-Paced Online Course Start whenever you are ready. Start the Online Course
3-Day Physical Retreat November 6th-8th, 2026 · GNCC Muldersdrift, Johannesburg Attend the Physical Retreat
3-Day Live Online Retreat November 6th - 8th, 2026 · Join from anywhere Join the Live Online Retreat